Wednesday, August 8, 2012

"Bad boys ain't no good... Good boys ain't no fun."

-Opening lyrics to Mary J. Blige's "Mr. Wrong". A song I don't agree with. In the chorus she sings "Me and Mr. Wrong get along so good, even though he breaks my heart so bad. We've got a special thing going on, I love my Mr. Wrong."

In my opinion that is a TERRIBLE message to send out to women. Good boys are no fun and Mr. Wrong is the one to love, even though he's no good. Horrible.

I never quite understood why women go for the "bad boys". People I know will choose the most dangerous-looking out of a group of men to chase after. How is it at all attractive that someone carries a gun and is part of a gang?

My aunt dated a bad boy. She knew he was involved with some bad people, but she loved him. Unfortunately, love can't protect you from everything. The next news I heard, he'd been shot three times; twice in the back once in the head. That's why I don't approve of or understand falling in love with someone who's no good. Because they're heading down a very bad path and you should consider yourself lucky that they don't bring you down with them.

One of my cousins was sleeping with someone older than she, and she was not of legal age. Her mother sent him to jail, and when he was released, he killed her. I would say that bad boys are not that attractive after all, but for some reason, women everywhere keep chasing after them.

Men, I ask you to raise your sons to be better than you. To be young gentlemen who respect women's wishes and the wishes of their parents as well. Women, I ask that you not only hold off on sex but wait to find someone who would be a good boyfriend or husband.
If your relationship is a secret, there's some kind of problem, and someone who truly loves you will wait AT LEAST until you are of legal age to engage in any kind of sex with you. Some of you reading this are shaking your heads at me. I don't care. I don't want anyone to have to go through the pain that my family has.

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