Annoying. Eternally annoying.

This holiday was... Special. In more ways than one. My half sister is exactly as annoying as I remember. When my mom kicked her out to live with her father, she told me that time apart could renew our relationship. I have to disagree. In the spirit of the holiday season, I tried not to snap on her, but she is one controlling bitch. The first annoying thing she said to me was "Axanti, don't drink all the apple juice. Save some for Tristan!" (Tristan is my nephew.) first of all, she didn't buy the juice. Second of all, there was also grapefruit and orange juice in the fridge, so she had no reason to be so concerned over something so insignificant. Then she pulled out random things from the past, like how I cursed out her and her ex (after she sent us this disturbing email about how her whole life's problems were my mom's fault, how she was going down "a lesbian spiral", had fantasies of being raped? and other things like this. She sent this not only to my younger sister and father, but also cousins she hasn't spoken to in years, that are younger than I am.) She also is controlling of her boyfriend. She orders him around all the time and makes him get her things and make her food. She doesn't even call him pet names. I've never seen them hug or even hold hands. It's so weird. How can you make a child with someone who you can barely stand being around? I finally snapped on her in San Francisco. My mom called me and said what I thought was "we're in Joe's Crab Shack". We started walking that way, and I got lost. I used my google maps to find Joe's, and there goes my half sister, "Why didn't you text her? Which way are we going? You should've texted her." Blah blah blah. Finally, I said "Well it's done now, isn't it? So let it go." That shut her up for the next couple minutes. My face must've been red. My Uncle could tell, he put his arm on my shoulder for a second while we walked. Idk what it is about my half sister, but she always wants to prove that she's an adult. She tries to do this by ordering my sister and I around, she's 5 years older than me. She forgets that we've grown and matured since she saw us last. I am a legal adult and my sister is on her way there. I'm so glad she's gone, honestly. She graduated high school at age 15 and did nothing except got an AA. That makes me really mad. What's worse is that she said "you don't need to go go school to do well. Look at where I am!" Keep in mind, she can barely pay her bills or provide for her child; she also drops these stupid subtle hints for my parents, hoping they'll give her money. The last night she was here we watched a movie and she had a comment for everything that happened. She doesn't understand how uncomfortable she makes people and how annoying she is. But at last, she is gone. I am enjoying the peace and quiet.