For thinking ahead and planning my lifestyle around a goat. People have to do the same for dogs, I don't think my boyfriend understands that he won't ever have to take care of it or buy things for it, because it will be my pet and so other than seeing it every now and then, it will have the tiniest part in his life, he really just doesn't want me to have a barnyard animal.
The thing about this is that I'm wiling to compromise and he isn't. I guess I'll just stop trying to compromise with him from now on.
My mom always told me that when people are in relationships, sometimes they lose their individuality; well my boyfriend told me that he used to be annoyed at how chipper I am 80% of the time, he'd prefer that I be boring and stand still. He doesn't want me to have a goat as a pet, travel with it or anything. Well I refuse to lose my individuality on this relationship. I'm going to get whatever pet I would like and if he can't deal with that, he can live by himself.
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ReplyDeletedid you show him the video!? The video didn't change his mind?
I shall show him the video. It probably won't help, but ill show it to him.
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